After the Narcissist, life is chaos. That's exactly how the Narcissists want it. They want to see you struggle....and fail. But there is a way to get your life back!
So often, if you're feeling so many things, you might not have a lot of options on where to turn. Not family. Not friends. And if you're not currently in therapy, your options are even further limited. So what do you do?
There are never any good times with the Narcissist. The bitter truth of that statement stung me so deeply. What we were led to believe was all a lie. None of it was true. What we thought were good times was just smoke and mirrors.
The old phrase of “nature versus nurture” certainly comes to mind when asking the question of if Narcissists are born that way or if it is the way they are brought up. Personally, I feel it’s a little bit of both.
Time for another guest blog post, readers. I love the insight that these posts provide. They allow me to share another's point of view with you. It gives me a sense of deeper knowledge and helps me to decipher the Narcissist even more. What have been your experiences with the "original high"? Comment below. And as always, I appreciate you for sharing your stories with me.
I've seen the question asked many times. Can a Narcissist change for the better? Surprisingly, the answer is both yes and no. I have not seen it happen, so that doesn't necessarily mean that it doesn't happen.
Healing from gaslighting will take time and patience. It takes time because the victim's reality became so distorted that he or she will find it difficult to accept the actual truth.
In my blog on Boundaries, I spoke of some brief experiences I had with my NX and how he cannot respect them. This blog, I'll be revisiting the topic of boundaries and go more in depth in how you can establish healthy ones with the Narcissist in your life.
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Greetings, my warrior survivor friends! Welcome to my blog. I'm Julianna Jen, the owner and creator of this site. Check out the My Story section to read about why I started this blog. Thanks for stopping in. And feel free to comment on any post, share your own thoughts and stories. I would love to hear from you!
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Here you will find my most popular posts for easier discovery.
How Narcissists Make Sure You Never Solve Problems In A Relationship
Tightening Your Facebook Privacy Settings
How I Lost My Identity
The Fake Apology
Effects of Emotional Abuse
Why You Should Never Defend Yourself Against The Narcissist's Smear Campaign
Emotionally Abusive Behaviors
Going No Contact: A List Of What To Do And What Not To Do
An Open Letter To All Survivors Who Just Got Out Of An Abusive Situation
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