A Narcissist's goal is to make you feel worthless, unlovable, crazy, fat or ugly. A Narcissist wants you to think that you can't do anything right, that you are forgetful, that you need psychological help.
Well, I'm here to tell you that's all hogwash! Why? Because you are valued!
I repeat.....You are valued.
You are worthy of a good person's love, worthy to get that new job, worthy to accomplish whatever it is that you set your mind to.
You are not crazy. You are not what the Narcissist says you are. You matter! Your life matters. Your creativity matters.
Think back to what you were like before the Narcissist. I know it might be hard, but that's okay. Make a list if you need to. Write down all the things you loved about yourself before the Narcissist.
What's my list? For me, I love my smile, my creativity, my humor, my eyes, my laugh. I love that I am determined and a hard worker. I love that I love to help others. My friends have told me that I am a beautiful, funny person......to hear that makes me smile. I know my friends value my presence.
I repeat positive affirmations to myself to help remind myself that I am worthy and not what my NX says I am.
Above all, my friends, I just wanted you to know that you matter. You are valued. Take care of your awesome self!
Comment below with ways you show kindness to yourself. And as always, I appreciate you for sharing your stories with me.
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