Once you have that light bulb moment and begin to see the Narcissists for what they are, you will begin to see their fake persona begin to shatter. You will see the Narcissist scramble to do damage control.
What is a fake persona?
A fake persona is just simply an illusion that the Narcissists create. It’s a mask they wear. They need to keep up with the lies they tell by pretending to be someone they are not. They pretend they are the perfect mate to the supply they reel in.
Narcissists wear this mask to mislead everyone they come across. They manipulate others under the guise of this fake persona just to get what they want.
This fake persona is carefully created to give the illusion that the Narcissist is important. Narcissists want to appear like they are actually someone important. They puff up their image and strut around like they are a peacock, and can come across as very arrogant.
Why would they want do damage control?
The main thing to understand about Narcissists and their fake persona is that they hate having their true nature revealed. They spend all their time keeping up appearances, sort to speak. They need to have this fake persona intact.
Narcissists begin their damage control when they notice their control over you is beginning to slip. They don’t want their fake persona to be publicized. That would end up causing all their dirty secrets to be spilled out into one big pile.
Beginning to see the Narcissist’s true nature is eye-opening. You learn that the Narcissists are not perfect like they claim to be. They are manipulative, liars, cheats. The fog lifts and you see that you were their puppet all along. You compromised who you are just to please them. Yes, the Narcissist’s fake persona is showing.
What did you feel when you discovered the Narcissist’s fake persona? Comment below. And as always, I appreciate you for sharing your stories with me.
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